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Within the past few years, there has been a sharp rise in the number of people deciding to elope (for obvious reasons–and we\u2019re not talking about nosy in-laws trying to plan your whole wedding).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether the reasoning is that you want to eliminate all (or most) of the wedding<\/a> planning stages, have an intimate ceremony with your partner, or simply stay safe with a small<\/a> wedding, eloping is expanding beyond covid and becoming a popular way to get married.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Elopement can of course help you save money on certain occasions<\/a>, which definitely makes it an intriguing proposition. If you\u2019re not into the idea of having a big spectacle as you would for a traditional wedding, eloping is a great choice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

However, if you are considering this option, there are some things that you should be aware of when planning an elopement wedding. Here are the dos and don’ts of eloping that will help you make an informed decision before jumping into your nuptials.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Do: Make it All About Yourself<\/h2>\n

One of the biggest benefits of eloping is that you can truly make the event all about you and your partner. This allows for a special day that you are sure to remember for a long time to come. Eloping means that you don\u2019t have to concern yourself too much with the needs of other people attending your wedding\u2013this day is all about the two of you, just like it should be.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t: Worry About the Guest List<\/h2>\n

One of the best parts of eloping is that you don\u2019t have to worry about all of the politics of curating a guest<\/a> list. Many people who elope choose to only have their nearest and dearest take part in the wedding, allowing the event to be truly small and intimate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Do: Prepare Yourself for the Reactions of Your Friends and Family<\/h2>\n

When you decide to elope, one of your biggest concerns may be the reactions of your family and close friends. It’s a valid worry\u2013if you choose not to have these people as a part of your big day, there’s a chance someone will be upset about not being included.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Not everyone is going to support your decision to elope because it is more taboo than a traditional big wedding. In order to avoid too much backlash, try involving your friends and family in some way. Having them find out through social media is a <\/span>huge <\/span><\/i>no-no\u2013and you won\u2019t hear the end of it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t: Feel Bad About Your Decision to Elope<\/h2>\n

This is your special day. Even though this is <\/span>not a traditional wedding<\/span>, that does not mean that you can\u2019t celebrate your love just as deeply. There are plenty of small things that you can do to make the day extra special<\/a>. Don\u2019t feel like you have to opt for a courthouse setting, either\u2013choose the destination that feels right for you, whether that’s City Hall or a rustic hilltop!<\/span><\/p>\n

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Do: Think About Fashion and What to Wear<\/h2>\n

When it comes to weddings, settling on a look you don’t absolutely love is just not an option. Even if you have a courthouse wedding<\/a>, there are plenty of options for what to wear to make this day special. <\/span><\/p>\n

Elopement wedding outfits are typically more casual<\/a> than traditional bridal gowns<\/a>, but you should still treat yourself by finding something that makes you feel beautiful. If you prefer to go fancier<\/a>, then do it!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t: Forget to Hire a Wedding Planner, Photographer, and Videographer<\/h2>\n

Even if your elopement is a last-minute decision, that doesn\u2019t mean that you should forgo all of the traditional vendors that can help you plan<\/a> and document your day. Having a wedding planner will take a lot of stress off of you, regardless of how casual you want your elopement to be. Booking a photographer<\/a> and videographer as well will allow you to share the special moment with family and friends who may not have been at the wedding.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Do: Pay Attention to the Legal Details<\/h2>\n

Eloping can be a spontaneous decision for many couples, but you should still make sure to pay attention to the legal details of the process. Having a marriage<\/a> license, registering in advance, doing the right paperwork, and making sure the marriage will be valid in your own jurisdiction is important to make sure everything runs smoothly.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t: Book an Elopement Wedding Package Without Looking it Over<\/h2>\n

Many resorts<\/a> and planners offer elopement packages that can make the process easier. These packages sometimes include things such as the ceremony, an in-house photographer, local flowers, a romantic dinner, and other accommodations. Though this can be cost-effective, look at the details to make sure that you are satisfied with the package\u2013and to avoid any last-minute surprises (aka stress) on your wedding day.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eloping can be an intimate, wonderful experience for couples, so you should make sure to consider it as a legitimate option if you\u2019re tying the knot. Knowing the ins and outs of elopement can help you to make your day special and perfect, regardless of how last minute it is or how small your guest<\/a> list<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you planning an elopement wedding? Head to our Weddings Shop<\/a> to find your perfect bridal look–and don’t forget to show us on Instagram @lulus<\/a> using #lovelulus!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Within the past few years, there has been a sharp rise in the number of people deciding to elope (for obvious reasons–and we\u2019re not talking about nosy in-laws trying to plan your whole wedding).\u00a0 Whether the reasoning is that you want to eliminate all (or most) of the wedding planning stages, have an intimate ceremony… Read more »<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":184,"featured_media":255002,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[42077,42242],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-254974","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle","category-weddings"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nPlanning An Elopement Wedding? 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